Supporting Family Health Care Decisions

Personal Stories

Most New Yorkers are unaware of the law regarding medical decision making for incapacitated patients. This page will tell some of the true stories of patients and families that illustrate the problems.

Raymond

Raymond's story is told on the Ray of Hope website, and in an article in the Buffalo News, Sunday June 11, 2006, and an article in The Tonawanda News, November 16, 2007. The Health Care Decisions Act for Persons with Mental Retardation (HCDA), enacted in 2002 permits family decisions for those retarded persons who have a (Surrogate's Court Procedure 17-A) legal guardian. Legal guardianship is expensive and time-consuming. Often it can not be obtained in time to help many patients with developmental delays, as Raymond's story demonstrates. The HCDA was a welcome first step toward reducing suffering of people with mental retardation. Aside from the expense and long delay in obtaining 17-A guardianship, keep in mind that this law applies only to mentally retarded persons. Legal guardians of other incapacitated people (such as those with Alzheimer's dementia or strokes) do not have the same authority since that guardianship is granted under a different section of New York law (Mental Hygiene laws).

Sheila Pouliot

Sheila Pouliot was a 42 year old Syracuse woman who was severely disabled since infancy. Her death in March 2000 followed an agonizing fight by her family and physician to withdraw the burdensome treatments imposed by New York state law. Read about her story here including news articles, her physician's account and a discussion of artificial hydration and nutrition.

Paula Baez

Paula Baez was a 49 year old Buffalo woman with Down's Syndrome. Speaking only Spanish, she was cared for at home by her loving family, but died in a hospital ICU surrounded by strangers she couldn't understand, on a ventilator her family had opposed. Read about her story here as told by her niece, and a brief account by her physician.

Tony's Mother

Tony is a biology teacher whose mother was diagnosed with Alzheimer's at the age of 94. He and his wife took care of her in her own home as long as they could and then put her in a nursing home. His mother stopped eating and the nursing home physician told Tony they would have to put a feeding tube in her. On the advice of the geriatric specialist who had diagnosed his mother, Tony refused to allow the feeding tube. Read about Tony and his mother here and a brief commentary.


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